Although married for over 20 years, the relationship between the superstar actress and her cinematographer husband has faced challenges. The cinematographer’s ex-wife claimed that the actress had stolen him and bought her a divorce early in their relationship. The actress, known for her beauty, had previous relationships with high-profile men like Lyle Lovett and Kiefer Sutherland, but it was in 2000 that she met her husband on the set of The Mexican.

At the time, the cinematographer was married to Vera Steimberg, and the actress was dating Benjamin Bratt. The actress said meeting him was life-changing, and despite not dating immediately, their eventual connection led to the end of their previous relationships. Six months after they met, the cinematographer filed for divorce, though it was a difficult process due to Steimberg’s reluctance.

In interviews, the actress clarified that she wasn’t responsible for the dissolution of their marriage. She emphasized the deep bond she felt with the cinematographer, describing him as her soul mate. While their relationship initially caused tension, especially with Steimberg, the couple eventually found happiness together after the divorce.

The actress admitted that the start of their relationship was difficult, with fears of losing a friend if things didn’t work out. Despite public scrutiny, including rumors about her “stealing” her husband, the actress maintained that their connection was genuine. The couple later found joy in their relationship, sometimes spending time apart due to their film industry careers. They exchanged letters, which the actress cherished.

While Steimberg had a different perspective, calling the actress a “husband stealer” and claiming the relationship would not last, the actress described her bond with the cinematographer as a once-in-a-lifetime experience. She credited him with bringing balance to her life, shifting her priorities and improving her happiness.