A husband found himself in utter shock when his wife joyfully announced she was pregnant—despite him secretly undergoing a vasectomy.
Here’s what he shared:
Hi Timelesslife,
My wife and I have been married for five years. Before tying the knot, we both agreed not to have children. However, she later changed her mind and insisted we start a family. Still firm in my stance, I secretly had a vasectomy last year to avoid conflict. I never told her.
Three months ago, she excitedly told me she was pregnant. I immediately accused her of cheating, still keeping my vasectomy a secret. She was devastated and confused. I demanded a paternity test—she reluctantly agreed.
The results? The baby is mine. My vasectomy likely failed.
I’ve apologized for doubting her, but haven’t confessed about the vasectomy. Now she’s distant, heartbroken, and considering divorce. She thinks I cared more about blame than being by her side.
Should I tell her everything now, or will that just deepen the damage? With a baby on the way, I need help figuring out how to rebuild our relationship and regain her trust.
